We find these people everywhere, on the streets, in school, in the army, in work or even at home. There are people in this world that will peep into your phonebook to get your client's no. to steal them from you. There are people that impose several duties and task on you when there are others that they could spread the work out on. There are people that ruins others' life and feel no guilt.
It is sad to see people becoming victims of such acts, acts which I see no meaning to. Why do some people do harmful things on others? Is it for vengence? For your own benefit and gains or what? I dont know really.
Wanna talk about love. I dont know if i should talk about this in the first place though cuz im just a 19 year old kid and dont think im 100% ready and sure of what im gonna talk about.
Personally, i feel that for a guy and girl to stay tgt as a couple is difficult. Frankly speaking, it's difficult. There are so many things that are able to cause a break up and it could be simple things like money, work, family, lack of trust, religion, lack of committment, health, disablities, accidents, even friends. It can take years to build a strong relationship but it only takes a minute, a sentence, a virus to end one. And definitely, the thought of losing a love one is painful. The thought of how i first broke up a few years back is still painful and i can still remember the tears i shed in the past. It was painful.
But eventually i managed to get back up on my two feets and carry on. Thanks to people like caixin and liwen who motivated me though those tough times. Why look at just a tree when you got the entire forest. One can always catch a new fish if one loses the previous.
Love is a powerful thing in this world. It can cause crimes and suicides, etc. Love also makes us unique. Not many animals know how to love. That is why we must learn to love the people around us, especially our family.
Speaking of which, Family. One of the three most important things in life. The importance of a family cannot be stressed. Whether its your mum or dad, or your gf bf, brother or sister, aunt or uncle. Why family and not friends? The reason is blunt but true. Family is there forever, but friends wont last. After reading a book, tipping point, i realised something very true. Friends are only made when we are involved in the same activity. We only make friends because we share the same activity. For 4 years i may know this person well because of football, i might not even talk to him ever again when we go on our separate ways. I could be your friend now, but 30 years later, We may just be strangers and that is the fact. This is because of the proven fact that having close friends is tiring and time consuming. It is difficult to have up to 150 close friends because of all the committment you must put in. That is why family is so important. They will always be there unlike friends we made in school.
PS: of course there will definitely be brillant friends that we'll make along the course of our life and i feel we shld treat them as family too.
ByeBye